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Irma Goes Rural

The fair is coming to town tomorrow, and the entire campus is welcome.  Named after the dorm’s namesake, Irma Lambein, Irma’s Country Fair will take place from 2-4 p.m. in the Van Dyke Lounge this Saturday, March 17. While Lambein will be hosting the event, the fair will be open to community members and Houghtonites alike. 

It will feature a chili cook-off and egg roulette at 2:30 p.m., and a pie-eating contest and potato sack race at 3:00 p.m. Throughout the afternoon there will be popcorn, cotton candy, games, and live animals, including lambs for Lambein.  The event will be a laid-back, come-and-go atmosphere, designed to be full of food, friends, and lots of laughter.

a portrait of Irma Lambein for whom the dorm is namedA newly conceived idea, this event will mark Lambein’s first major event of the semester, as well as the dorm’s first all-campus event in years. Building resident director Beth Phifer said, “I’m hoping Irma’s Country Fair will be a relaxing, lighthearted space for people to enjoy each other’s company through the activities we’ve put together.”

Phifer and the rest of Lambein staff were excited to put on a program that is more outwardly focused, though it proved to be a step beyond their comfort zone. “It’s a new challenge for this staff to try and create a campus-wide event,” said Jessica Robinson, senior resident assistant of Lambein, “but we really think it’s a great time for Lambein to shine, to show off some of our quirks and bring the campus together through Lambein.”

Event-planning for the whole campus was an exciting opportunity for staff members, encouraging them to think outside their usual Lambein-specific box and create a meaningful event for the whole campus to enjoy.

Raheel Dhingra ‘19, RA and resident event specialist, stated that this event will be different because “everyone and anyone can come.” She was eager to reach out to the rest of campus with the help of lambs, tasty food, and friendly competition. Dhingra commented that “through the Country Fair, Lambein is making itself known.”

Lambein is somewhat infamous for its quiet and internal personality, which serves as explanation for the staff’s enthusiasm in response to Lambein hosting an all-campus event. The Country Fair will be busy, bustling, and centralized in the campus center—a definite step outside of Lambein’s long-standing reputation.

It will be a busy weekend for the campus, with Oklahoma! playing from Thursday through Saturday and CAB’s Oklahoughdown after the Friday showing, but that hasn’t dampened anyone’s spirits. The Oklahoughdown will function similarly to the after-Prism party, supporting the Greatbatch School of Music by connecting to the musical. A.C. Taylor, the director of CAB, remarked that “it’s an added bonus that Lambein is planning a more active “country” program the same weekend as the Oklahoma! shows. CAB [is hosting] a reception that enhances and promotes those existing events rather than compet[ing] with them.” This supportive approach to campus programming highlights the values that Lambein is hoping to foster through the Country Fair and reflects Houghton’s famous love for community.

Phifer said, “The chili cook-off, pie-eating contest, and Jimmy Fallon-inspired egg roulette are some of the more focal elements, but at its heart, Irma’s Country Fair is just a fun way for Lambein to serve the community.” As the week draws to a close, and the weekend begins,  Lambein welcomes the entire campus to the Country Fair for a #irmagood time.

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Two Views // On Loving Your Neighbor – Gena Hartman

As a Christian, one of my core beliefs is that we should love our neighbors. I work hard to support the people around me, but I’m not always successful. I fail pretty often, actually. Sometimes I feel guilty because I think I should be better at loving my neighbors. Sometimes I feel downright selfish when I avoid people by shutting my door and not coming out for the rest of the night.

But as an introvert, I know I need time to recharge, to sit and watch a movie or do homework without other people needing my attention. It’s completely reasonable to need some alone time, even if it means not investing in other people for those hours. I’m investing in myself. If I didn’t take that time, I’d burn out in a week. All of this may sound obvious to you, but it took me a long time to recognize that introvert time for what it was: self-care.

a photo of the authorThe more people I meet, the more I notice that I’m not alone. So many Christians are terrible at taking time for themselves. If someone in the community needs a casserole or wants company because they’re in the hospital, the church will immediately encourage their congregants to reach out to them. But why doesn’t the church also encourage people to take personal time? The Bible talks about loving and caring for others, and the church is happy to emphasize that. The church doesn’t spend anywhere near the same amount of time talking about Sabbath and rest.

I’m not saying that casseroles and visiting sick people is bad; I think this is one of the best parts of living in community. Some people need a lot of love and support, and it is a beautiful thing when the church comes together to provide that care. But love and support come at a personal cost. We can’t keep pouring into hurting and needy people without getting anything back and expect that to be a sustainable lifestyle.

Why are so many Christians terrible at self-care? It’s because we are so worried about being selfish. We are told over and over to put others first, and we start to think that any kind of self-care is inappropriate. We look at self-love as an inherently selfish and dangerous idea, but I think that’s total bullshit. Of course self-care can be taken too far and become selfish. Of course we should be generous and mindful of the people around us—but that doesn’t mean we should neglect our own needs.

Ed Sheeran’s song “Save Myself” is a prime example. Sheeran talks about giving of himself for others, only to be completely drained and numb inside. He then realizes, “Before I save someone else, I’ve got to save myself.” His statement has the important word “before” in it; Sheeran doesn’t say “Instead of saving someone else, I’ll save myself.” He’s simply recognizing the proper order of events. We can’t properly love and care for others if we are drained and empty. By taking care of ourselves, we are able to help more people. If Ed Sheeran isn’t convincing enough, the Bible has similar words: “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.” (Mark 13:31) You’ve heard the words a hundred times, but how many times have you thought about this as a two-part idea? Love others as you love yourself. Self-care is implied; it’s not an option, it’s not selfish, and it’s certainly not wrong. 

I think it all comes down to balance. Without self-care, we cannot properly love others, but if we don’t love other people, we miss out on the beauty of community. We are not called to be perfect people. We are not called to waste away helping others. But we are called to love, and this means learning the balance between caring for ourselves and caring for the people and community around us.

 

Gena is a junior majoring in English and adolescent education.

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Education With A Purpose

Lately I’ve been thinking about why we are here. Why choose a Christian education? What does a Houghton education have to offer us that other schools do not? Finally, is it worth the cost?

My short answer is “Yes, it’s worth the cost.” Real shocker, I’m sure. This may sound a little obvious, coming from a person who spent a few years being homeschooled, went to a private Christian middle and  high school, and then ended up here. What else am I going to say, right?

Well, it’s not that simple. I have seen a lot of things that turn me off in all the Christian institutions that I’ve attended. There are major flaws in all of them, and I can think of reasons for anyone in my shoes to say, “It’s not worth it” and walk away. I think a lot of people at Houghton have at some point thought those very words. So why do I still think it’s worth it?

For one, you will find flaws in every single institution, whether Christian or secular. Being a Christian institution doesn’t make Houghton automatically better, but does mean that it should be different. It means that our school and other Christian institutions should foster a culture of grace. I have seen so many people in leadership positions at Houghton and in other Christian schools react to mistakes in an extremely merciful way. When problems come up, as they undoubtedly will, having administrators and leaders that model a forgiving, graceful attitude makes a huge difference.   

To provide some more context, I’m a junior education major. This means that I’ve spent a lot of time in many different high schools, most of them secular.  The teachers I have observed have a range of different mindsets. The first time I saw a group of teachers complaining about their students to each other during lunch made a big impression on me. Pro tip: avoid being the only person in the room that isn’t trash-talking students, because it is very uncomfortable. That experience has helped me to better appreciate the amazing teachers and professors that I’ve had at Houghton.

This has also solidified in my mind the importance of carrying my faith into the places I go. Certainly, not every secular public school has a negative attitude toward students, nor is  this attitude completely removed from Christian schools. Everyone has their bad days. But the attitude of teachers will influence the students.  Thankfully, in my experience, Christian school teachers and professors have not shown that same destructive attitude.  At a college like Houghton, it is vital to foster a positive and encouraging attitude. I’ve seen a lot of amazing examples of this in my time here, and I believe it stems from shared faith and values. The community created by our Christian faith is a big reason that education at Houghton is so meaningful to me.

These two examples that I mentioned—a culture of forgiveness and an encouraging, Christ-centered environment—are built not only by teachers, but also by the students. Especially since we live on campus, we play a vital role in cultivating these important parts of our community. We can each be more understanding when problems arise. We can be encouraging rather than always focusing on the negatives. We can remember how privileged we are to be here. I know there are many things to argue, to debate, and to question. But if you ask me whether a Christian education is worth it, I’ll say yes every time. I hope that you’ll do the same.

Gena is a junior majoring in adolescent education and English with an art minor.

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Listening Generously: The Women’s March on Washington

January 21 saw a great deal of protesters. Cities across America and across the globe blocked off their streets for huge crowds to march in peaceful protest. People from all walks of life, with countless different views, joined together to seek equality and justice for women, and for the world.

A march such as this one should cause us to take a step back and examine ourselves. It should help us to look at the people protesting, and listen to the voices that speak peacefully, but insistently. We should ask ourselves why so many thousands of people feel the need to leave their homes and participate in a peaceful protest. Rather than immediate dismissal of the march as a whole, we should listen with open minds that seek to understand the messages being conveyed.

Photos of the march show numerous people, many of whom are holding signs with a variety of slogans on them. Some supported women’s health, some sought equal pay, some protested the language used by the newly-inaugurated President. The people walking side by side were championing a variety of different causes, but they were standing together, and were stronger for it. This march is a powerful display of people uniting for justice and equality, and I think they have a strong case backing them up. For all the protests of the past, there is still a great deal of injustice in our world. I might not agree with every voice that rises from the crowd of protesters, but I certainly agree with some. I won’t ignore all of the voices because I disagree with some of the people who participated in the Women’s March.

What will the world do in response to this global show of solidarity? I often feel that no matter how many people protest, nothing will change. Maybe some will listen, but this protest has the potential to be superficially noticed and handily ignored. Yet no matter how hard it is to remember on some occasions, history shows us that change is slow, but still possible. It is the small steps of change that eventually bring us miles from where we were. We can make the small step of listening a little more closely. We can be a part of the change that can occur in the world, in America, and in our own college.

This is not a perfect place, and it is not enough for us to go blindly on, failing to notice the hurts that exist where we are. What we can do, and are called to do as Christians, is hear the words of the people around us, who have voiced their concerns and fears. We can be more willing to show grace to each other, and more willing to listen to the worries of those around us. Houghton may not have had a Women’s March on the quad, but nevertheless, the voices protesting injustice will become clearer when, instead of ignoring them, we choose to listen.

This isn’t a solution, of course. Listening will not magically solve the many problems that are being faced. This is simply a reminder to have minds and hearts that are willing to look at things from different points of view. It would be arrogant to imagine that we can fix everything ourselves. What we can do is to think a little harder about the social justice questions that are being raised, and care a little more deeply for the people around us.