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A Call to Proximate Change

Donald Trump’s presidency felt real to me for the first time when, in between classes, a friend asked, “Have you heard about the refugee ban?” Having avoided newspaper headlines and successfully blocked my ears from what was going on, I answered that no, other than what had been said on the campaign trail, I had not.

I knew in that moment that I had ignored current events for a few weeks too long, and it had to stop. I spent that afternoon researching what I had missed and learned the details of the president’s proposed policy. The original executive order suspended the United States Refugee Admissions Program for 120 days and aimed to decrease the total number of refugee admissions by more than 50% during the coming fiscal year. Furthermore, it halted the resettlement of Syrian refugees and banned refugees from Iraq, Iran, Somalia, Libya, Sudan, and Yemen.

Stories of refugee families, some of whom I have had the privilege to call neighbor and friend, flashed through my mind, and I realized the sadness and disappointment I felt was not so much about President Trump as it was about these beautiful people. I was reminded of a Somali mom I once tutored, who wanted to get her GED so she could get a better job and support her children. I remembered an Eritrean man who, over a table of homemade bread and chai tea, reflected, “We love Jesus, so we love other people and are kind to them.” I remembered the hours I spent playing soccer with a yard full of fifth graders. I could tell you lots of stories that I’m sure only tap the surface. From the city streets of Buffalo to the rolling hills of Rwanda, these encounters continue to challenge me.

As I read headline after headline, though, I felt powerless. After all, even politicians have few options when looking to respond to an executive order. What could I possibly do? I knew I cared about refugees, but my hands felt tied. You might ask what the point of all this is. This news broke weeks ago. The executive order has since changed. While I would certainly argue that refugee resettlement is still important, the issue at hand goes further.

I fear that our affinity for extravagant, fix-it-all solutions has caused us to forget the value of proximate change. While macro-level responses and policies are both necessary and valuable, we cannot neglect the small responses.

In many ways, humans are limited. As a college student, I cannot force the President to rescind an executive order. People who respond to issues like climate change and global poverty are, in many ways, only chipping at the surface. We can only do so much. Still, we hope and persist. Jena Lee Nardella, the founder of the community health organization Blood:Water Mission says this about proximate change, “All our work—even if we lose, even if it is merely proximate is worth fighting for. The world is indeed a hard place to live, and it will likely break our heart if we keep engaging with it, but we choose to hope anyway.”

My challenge for you is this: ask yourself what it is that you care deeply about, look at where your feet are planted and who you can serve right around you, and then do something. Call your congressional representatives, talk about it with a friend, attend a town hall meeting, or volunteer in your city. Proximate change might not be flashy and it will not solve everything overnight. On the other hand, if we let cynicism or a desire for grandeur keep us from starting somewhere, we might not ever start. In the small, people grow, minds are changed, and commitments are made. And to the Christian: we serve a God who is completely able, yet cares about and works even in the small. What a privilege it is that we might join him.   

Emily is a senior majoring in political science and international development with a minor in Spanish.

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Pursuing Vulnerability as Christians

There must be a switch that’s flipped between junior and senior year. As of late, more and more of the conversations I have drift toward, “What are you going to do after you graduate?” Often, my reply amounts to well-intentioned rambling about dreams and ideas and few definite plans about the future. While most of these questions come from the genuine curiosity and care of friends and relatives, I think they also get at something deeper. Beneath the five-year plans and polished resumes lie our responses to one of our culture’s favorite expectations: You’ve got to have it all together.

Emily Barry RGBNow, don’t get the wrong idea. Resumes and networks are powerful tools that can be key in thinking about our professional journeys. Post-collegiate plans, however, are just one way this expectation shows up in our culture. It has permeated the church, too. We see it in the perfectly filtered photos of Bibles alongside coffee mugs and conversations that often fail to go beyond surface level. In adopting the belief that “we’ve got to have it all together,” we as Christians have forgotten the value of vulnerability.

Social scientist Brené Brown defines vulnerability as “uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.” Vulnerability asks us to be authentic. When we pursue vulnerability, we put away the person we think we need to be and move instead toward authenticity. It requires us to be honest about our experiences, feelings, and at times, shortcomings. Being vulnerable means stepping outside of our comfort zones, putting away our pre-packaged answers, and putting ourselves out there.

To be honest, pursuing vulnerability sounds challenging, and even frightening. By its very nature, though, the church ought to be one of the safest places to be vulnerable. When we say we believe in Christianity, we recognize we are in no way close to having it all together. The very heart of the Gospel message tells us that it is only through the power of Jesus’ death and resurrection we find restoration. Knowing this, we can let go of who we think we should be or who our culture tells us we ought to be. We don’t have to fear the uncertainty or rejection that might accompany vulnerable conversations, because we know who we are in Christ.

emilyquoteAdmittedly, vulnerability can be abused. Just as we run from vulnerability in an effort to look like “better” Christians, we can misuse it in order to feign humility and appear more spiritual. These motivations miss the mark. At its best, vulnerability isn’t about us. Rather, it’s a tool we can use to connect with others. Sharing allows us to build trust, be heard, know that we are loved, and remember we’re not alone. Opening ourselves up to others creates a more comfortable environment for others to share as well. And in allowing people to do so, we learn how to listen and support those around us more effectively. Even looking outside of the Church, our stories can be powerful testimonies to God’s faithfulness and goodness. As Christians, a posture of vulnerability says, “I don’t have it all together. In weakness, we find strength, because Christ makes all things—including you and me—new.”  

My hope is this: That we would remember that the Christian life is not akin to a list of items that we must check off or a presentation that we would give at work. Rather, it’s an ongoing, and sometimes messy, process of learning what it means to look more like Christ and to love God and others. Because our identity is in Christ, we have the freedom to boldly pursue vulnerability. Henri Nouwen sums it up well, saying, “We are called to be fruitful –not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.”

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Don’t Let Feelings Trump Facts

For many, election season is a time to hide and plug your ears, but for me, it is a time to tune in and pay close attention. Throughout my life, it has been stressed that voting is a privilege and it would be outrageous not to take advantage of this opportunity. Because of this, I was excited to tune-in to the GOP Presidential debate three weeks ago. I was ready to watch the candidates answer hard-hitting questions about foreign policy, healthcare, and the economy, but soon found myself feeling frustrated because the moderators’ questions focused largely on the things that had come out of Donald Trump’s mouth instead of the actual issues..   

Emily Barry RGBAlthough it seems like headlines always aim to catch our attention, I can’t help but sense that something is different this time around.  I remember flipping through the newspaper last summer and noticing a poll that compared  the candidates running for the Republican nomination. When I saw that Trump was leading dramatically, my first inclination was that it had to be a joke. It is now months later, and Trump has not gone away. In fact, in many ways, he has taken over the presidential race. He’s everywhere: spread throughout the front pages of newspapers, sound bites, and social media.

How can this be? If you asked me a year ago, I never would have guessed that Trump was capable of transitioning from a business tycoon who fired people on reality television to a presidential front runner that takes center stage at debates. As I think about this significant change, I see a few critical factors that lie beneath Trump’s surge. Trump stands out because he states his opinions bluntly, rather than coating them with political rhetoric.  This means that he will utilize any means necessary to voice his positions—even if that means calling his opposition “morons and losers” or labeling President Obama “the worst.”

I think this straightforward approach resonates with so many because people today view this bluntness as honesty. For some, there are indeed things about the United States’ current political reality that are disheartening. Trump’s voice has quickly become, in the eyes of many, a representation of the anger building in our political sphere. He not only validates individuals’ frustration but also offers his supporters a method of channeling those feelings by creating an “us versus them” dichotomy.  

However, the  problem does not lie in people expressing themselves. Individuals should have the right and ability to voice their concerns and ideas—whether by lobbying congress, engaging in relevant discussions, or supporting a particular presidential candidate. However, actions like those of Trump become problematic when they place greater emphasis on exhibiting rage and vilifying others than pursuing justice and developing practical solutions. They raise concern when they steer election coverage and public attention away from critical issues and their implications on our nation and toward matters of “he said/she said.” Although Trump is the current focus of headlines, Republicans are not alone.  There is a vast number of people, with various viewpoints, who base their votes solely on frustration and party affiliation, instead of the impact that candidates will have on our country.

Maybe you are tired of hearing about Trump. It might be that you couldn’t agree more with what he says. You may have already made up your mind, or perhaps you’re still deciding. The fact of the matter is: none of us are likely to ever speak personally with Trump. This means, that despite our lofty goals or heartfelt desires, it is implausible that you, or I, will change his demeanor or approach. So what, then, can you do? Watch the next debate, research political candidates and study important issues in order to be a well informed voter.
People have a tendency to prioritize feeling over fact. Yet, we must recognize the power, privilege, and responsibility that come with our votes.  My hope is that you would use your vote well—in a way that is rooted not in fickle emotions, but in a desire to see meaningful and effective impact.